Unfortunately, we see exactly what happens to children who are in abusive homes. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, (NCADV) fifty percent (50%) of Children who witness domestic abuse in their home will abuse their spouse, girlfriend or fiancee when they themselves are adults. Not only will they abuse their significant others but their children also!
I think Chris Brown is doing the right thing by getting the help that he needs to better manage his anger. So many other offenders/abusers will not seek help because they simply believe that they do not have a problem. So what actually happens is that they go from relationship to relationship battering and abusing women and their children until they are caught, arrested and sentenced to prison.
An abusers image is only a concern when public perception of him begins to take a beating. Some abusers will continue their abusive patterns even if they know that others know. Domestic Abuse is about CONTROL, MANIPULATION AND POWER, over one's victim, their family and friends.
I hope that Chris Brown will seek the help he needs...I hope Rihanna also seeks the help she needs as well...
I think Chris Brown is doing the right thing by getting the help that he needs to better manage his anger. So many other offenders/abusers will not seek help because they simply believe that they do not have a problem. So what actually happens is that they go from relationship to relationship battering and abusing women and their children until they are caught, arrested and sentenced to prison.
An abusers image is only a concern when public perception of him begins to take a beating. Some abusers will continue their abusive patterns even if they know that others know. Domestic Abuse is about CONTROL, MANIPULATION AND POWER, over one's victim, their family and friends.
I hope that Chris Brown will seek the help he needs...I hope Rihanna also seeks the help she needs as well...
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I just want to state one thing here. Abusive men should be seeking abuse counselors. Many think that psychologists offer the same help, but they do not. Usually, this form of help further feeds the ego and enables the abuser. I noticed this first hand, then read books on the issue. Abusers need to seek professionals that are experienced with dealing with abusive behavior and stopping it. I am sorry to say, psychologists do not offer that type of treatment. When my abuser started seeing his psychiatrist they immediately started concentrating on past issues rather than treating the issue at hand, the one that paralyzed me. Instead of focusing on controlling his abusive outbursts, he was delving into his childhood and family, and anything but the abuse. I was too naive to understand that the treatment he was seeking out was building up his ego and allowing him to create excuses for his behavior. I hope abusers are being directed towards the right kind of treatment and not the type that enables the abuse or creates excuses for it.
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